Hello, I have a 2011 Mac Mini, using it as a server in my home, running 10.8 server. However, when it's headless (no display attached), i am not able to remote in with either the Apple Remote Desktop app, or the screen sharing.app. It just sits at "connecting...". I can however connect remotely with logmein, but i prefer to use Apple Remote Desktop or screen sharing.app as i did with my 2006 iMac. Any insights on what i am doing wrong? Thanks.