With a flaky rotating hard drive there are a few tricks you can use to extract data from it, but since yours isn't even showing up, the controller probably failed, which means you're completely out of luck. You can't even try the never-really-works desperation measure of swapping controller boards like on a rotating hard drive, since everything is soldered on one circuit board. There's always data recovery houses, but I don't know if they've started working on SSDs yet, and even if they have you're talking about hundreds if not thousands of dollars in recovery costs.
...i really didn't expect my ssd to fail (why do i have to have a ssd which fails only 1% of all ssd fail why mee?)...
First, 100% of all SSDs will fail if you use them long enough. It's a physical object, it WILL break eventually.
I don't know where you got your 1% number, but given the comparatively tiny number of SSDs being purchased compared to traditional hard drives, and the fact that they've only been a widely-available consumer product for maybe a couple of years, if that, there are NO real-world long-term reliability stats worth anything at all for SSDs, period. Heck, there have only been a couple of good publicly available real-world studies of rotating hard drive reliability, and the entire modern world relies on those.
While SSDs have no moving parts, the controller itself is just as susceptible to failure as that on any regular hard drive, and the same goes for power electronics and other parts. Further, given that most of the companies making SSDs--even big ones like OCZ--have only been in the market a few years (versus as much as three decades for a company like Seagate, and well over a decade even for off-brand drive makers like Samsung), the technology is a LOT less mature than rotating hard drives.
Not to say that SSDs are unreliable, just that nobody knows how reliable they'll really end up being in the wild, and that the companies making them have a comparatively short track record and experience in the field compared to the massive hard drive market. "It'll last forever!" or "No moving parts!" doesn't in any way equal real-world reliability, and even if it did there's always bad luck.
