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Here's your solution - tell her you're going to break up with her. When she asks why, tell her it's because of the phone thing, it makes you uncomfortable, you suspect her of something, and you think it will lead to an unhealthy relationship down the line. If it's nothing, and you are just being paranoid (and if she has any common sense), she will let you see the phone. If she doesn't, and is willing to BREAK UP WITH YOU over it, you have your answer.
 
Here's your solution - tell her you're going to break up with her. When she asks why, tell her it's because of the phone thing, it makes you uncomfortable, you suspect her of something, and you think it will lead to an unhealthy relationship down the line. If it's nothing, and you are just being paranoid (and if she has any common sense), she will let you see the phone. If she doesn't, and is willing to BREAK UP WITH YOU over it, you have your answer.

I was thinking about doing that ...
 
really dude, you do know that if she is w/ you it means that she must dig you, unless you are rich maybe? Now, in psychiatry class I learned that people that are looking for any proof of cheating w/out previous evidence to suspect, it means in most cases that THEY were the ones that cheated first and want to find anything to relieve the stress from their own 'adventure' and thus not blame themselves for the failed relationship... (cue the dramatic music!!!!:eek:) lol
 
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