help! 'trying to overwrite' issue

I was upgrading 'activator' (i think) when this problem began....
Anytime I try to use Cydia to download anything at all...it basically fails with this following message.


/var/cache/apt/archives/com.xsellize.actionmenu_1.1.1a_iphoneos-arm.deb

Trying to overwrite ‘Library/ActionMenu/Plugins/Find.dylib’ which is also in package com.xsellize.actionmenu-pluspack


I've tried removing the find.dylib in the plugins folder ...didn't work.
I've also removed it from the com.xsellize.actionmenu-pluspack....didn't work.

any ideas???

correction: 2ndly I removed com.xsellize.actionmenu_1.1.1a_iphoneos-arm.deb

I still get the same message.
I've since put both files back on the phone.

 

nobody?

nobody has any idea??