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I am in the same boat as you.

I am considering the SGP Neo Hybrid EX (their site is currently down.)

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I thought about it, the SGP NEO Hybrid EX, but in the end I decided no. On about 80% of the reviews or feedback people say the case breaks along the thing part near the 30 pin jack. The case looks so nice though. I've still been looking around as well.
 
My understanding is that the Verizon case will fit the 4S phone. I ordered a CDMA Neo Hybrid EX in white today from Amazon. It comes with front and back clear protectors. I didn't want to cover my cool white phone inside a case.
 
I thought about it, the SGP NEO Hybrid EX, but in the end I decided no. On about 80% of the reviews or feedback people say the case breaks along the thing part near the 30 pin jack. The case looks so nice though. I've still been looking around as well.

I saw the same thing. As of right now my plan is to get a black Apple Bumper and a set of power support screen protectors (front/back, non-matte).

Edit:
The SGP Neo Hybrid II is 1.5x thicker, but they currently only carry the att/gsm version.
 
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