You probably are tired of it all and just being misinterpreted.
Generally, the perception or impression a lot of people come away with when confronted with strong expressions of disgust with certain points of view on social issues, is that the person making them is coming from a place of insecurity or defensiveness.
Think about it, usually when people don’t feel threatened or backed into a corner their language and tone is more neutral and academic. When people start feeling less secure, threatened, attacked, their expressions become more aggressive or hostile. So maybe that’s why people keep telling you they think you feel threatened, if you’ve been similarly abrupt and blunt expressing your point of view in the past.
However, I’ll take you at face value and believe you are just tired of the way things are going, the way things are discussed and you are genuinely annoyed by Tim Cook because he’s always bringing up topics or points of view you’d rather the CEO of a tech company leave out of his public discourse.
However, I am curious at what you have against women-specific organizations when there are still very many exclusively for men, for example a lot of fraternal organizations and lodges that exempt women or relegate them to auxiliary groups. Not that I myself have a problem with that. I’d look terrible in a fez.
With women still and possibly always a minority in the IT field, it makes sense they would want to network or exchange information to help them navigate with their unique concerns and questions through a male dominated field. A lot of these organizations hold workshops to help women work and communicate more effectively with men and that’s a win for everyone.
If it makes any difference, there are organizations for male nurses to help them navigate the traditionally female dominated nursing profession. There are quite a few bit here is one
http://www.aamn.org/
Someday some gender specific organizations in occupations will feel anachronistic and die out. Others may remain relevant and viable.