I take your points on board, but do you see how this reads a bit funny ? You hate Sonos, Bose, Soundbars, and Bluetooth wireless speakers. You also hate B&W. You also knew that the HomePod was designed by the guy that worked on the B&W speakers that you hate, and you know it's a small wireless speaker akin to all the ones you just stated that you also hate...
And despite all of that, you bought one anyway?
I can only assume you were just hoping that Apple would be better than the rest and reset your thoughts on the category ? If so, okay, I get it - i'm a fan of Apple and each time they enter a new product category, I tend to just assume they will do a good job of it too.
I hope you can at least get a full refund.