How can I remotely boot into windows and vice versa

I've bought a new mac mini (2.53ghz model) and used these instructions to put windows 7 64 bit on:

http://www.testfreaks.com/blog/information/how-to-install-windows-7-on-a-mac/

half way down the page it give you a link on putting 64bit on non support macs.

Why doesn't the new mac mini support 64bit win 7??!

I usually remotely access the mini from my laptop. How can I remotely restart from osx into win 7? I've gone to startup disks but win 7 isn't there even though BOOTCAMP is on my desktop.

Would be nice to make some sort of automator job to do it!

 

I've found this tool called bootchamp.....

http://www.macupdate.com/info.php/id/28468