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No themes are installed via iTunes

To use themes, your phone must be jailbroken

Then you need Cydia to install Winterboard & OpenSSH

Then either use Cydia to install theme, or dl it to PC/Mac and use SSH to put it into themes folder.

Then activate it with Winterboard.

Use Google, and find a step by step tutorial for all the above steps.
 
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