Nobody I know uses AIM, it's all about MSN or at lease Skype. And if they're not into that it's always Facebook or Myspace.
I really like the idea and style of iChat, but I can't talk to myself! Do you guys seriously use it to talk to AOL screen names? How do you find uses for it?
I use iChat for AIM. But I agree with you and find it annoying that everyone uses something different.. then if you try to accomodate everyone and have a AIM account, Yahoo account, MSN account, Facebook account, Myspace account, ICQ account, etc etc etc then you're a nerd for using all of them. To make it simple, I use Facebook but I keep the chat feature turned off. I use AIM for chatting with friends and I use GMAIL chat to talk to my wife because she doesn't like people messaging her.