FIT
cost should not be such a huge factor, if it is work for a few years before going. You need to go to a school that is a good fit for you. What do you plan to study? what schools excel at your course of study? take it from there and find what school is the best FIT
Cost should definitely be a big factor - the last thing we should be encouraging young people to do is take on $80,000 in student loan debt to attend a school that is a good "fit" when they'll barely make enough money to pay their student loans after graduation. My feeling is that encouraging young people to take on large amounts of debt in pursuit of a "college experience" and "fit" sets those students up for a lot of financial failure in the future.
College is not a place with the high objective of having fun if you are career driven; college is vocational training.
Networking is extremely important for your career. Many of the connections I've made and bonds I've formed with people who will likely be able to help me in my career (and I likewise for them) have been formed over more than a few beers at a restaurant or college party. I'm a pretty career driven guy, but to be honest, after you lineup your first job, most employers could give a rats ass about your grades.
If I went to college to have fun, I would not have any of my degrees. It is easy to get 'caught up' having too good a time for anyone. Yes, you can have a good time almost anywhere, but in academic-heavy schools, you do not have nearly as much of a social life as you can at other places.
I don't find that to be true. I have more of a social life at my top ranked graduate school than I ever did at my less academically recognized undergrad. My graduate program is significantly more intensive and difficult than my undergraduate program as well. A healthy social life and good grades certainly aren't mutually exclusive.
You get out what you put in.
Absolutely agree, but college isn't all about going to class and getting a 4.0. It is an experience that should have a balance of making sure you do well in your classes and engaging in a moderate social life. If I could go back and do undergrad again, I would worry a hell of a lot less about my grades, because they really aren't that important - I would have ended up at the same grad school and same job with a 3.7 GPA as I did with my 3.94 GPA. In grad school I've taken the approach that it is more about learning than about getting all A's - I've learned more and had a hell of of a lot more fun doing it.
As for how you should choose a school - visit campus and see where you feel the most comfortable. You're going to be living there for four years, you'd better like the city and the campus. Talk to as many students as you can and see what they say about the school. See how involved career services is in helping you find a job - let's not forget that, unless your parents are paying for your education, you're probably going to be paying loans when you graduate; a good career services would be helpful in helping you find a job to make those payments. Look at the cost and scholarships available - in general, I personally wouldn't recommend getting into severe debt, especially for most bachelor's degrees.
Finally, and perhaps most importantly, check out the caliber of ladies on campus. Having attended all private schools in Southern California, I'm pretty used to having a lot of "hotties" on campus - it is definitely a plus.
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