I know things in life can get rough, cr2sh. Sometimes, it's downright cr@p. And I probably can't even begin to comprehend what you and your ex- are going through right now...
But just bear in mind, everything happens for a reason - be it good or bad. Sometimes, you've just got to make the most of the situation.
I DO know things get better, though - with every day that passes. You just have to take each day as it comes, and that'll give you both the strength to work through your problems. It helps that you are both dealing with it, but make sure you work together, to give each other the support you need.
Chin up, big guy. We're here if you need to talk about it.
🙂