Hi Newmacuser23,
This may be relevant or not:
When I worked in broadcast, occasionally we'd get a file which appeared to be what it wasn't ... ie. 4x3 masquerading as 16x9 or vice versa.
Try playing the video and looking for something circular in it - like a wheel etc.- and looking to see if it appears stretched vertically (16x9 playing as 4x3), stretched horizontally (4x3 playing as 16x9), or just right.
Alternatively, people are often a good measure - look to see if they appear elongated or excessively fat ... (Though sometimes it can be difficult to tell!)
Hope this helps,
Cheers.