I'm new to Mac with Leopard, so I have no basis for comparison with what preceded. However, the translucent menu bar never bothered me, and I barely noticed it. I never noticed the menu translucency at all until I started reading the complaints and I looked more closely and thought, "Oh yeah, there it is." I tried the 2D dock, again because of the complaints, just to see what the hoopla was about, and I went back to the 3D doc; it looks fine on my setup. I can see having a preference of one over the other, but I can't see getting too worked up about it. Is this a case of getting overly attached to trivial things you're used to? Now that I've used the translucent menus, maybe I'll start screaming, "How dare they change that!" 🙄
I'm interested to see how the functional changes, the new stacks and Time Machine, affect my life. I'll find out when I get home.