There's no way to do it, those all populate automatically
there is one way to see more of what you want.
if you add a home button to control center....
it'll be one more click to get to the device screen, but everything will be arranged the way it is in home tab in your home app, and won't keep changing to show what it thinks you need.
then if you want, in the main settings app
go to control center
turn off home controls