Your network has multiple layers of security. First, they have to get past whatever protections exist on the network itself. Then, each device on a network has its own protections, built into its operating system, to prevent other people on the same network from accessing the device. That's what things like login passwords and sharing permissions are for.
Ultimately, nothing is immune to a determined hacker, but the question is, do you have anything worthy of their efforts? The more layers you add (or the fewer easy-access features you use), the safer things are. Unless the bad guys know you have something worthy of the effort, they're not going to waste a lot of time on you.
Pure ignorance on the part of whoever you spoke to at your provider. Per Wikipedia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wi-Fi_Protected_Access : A lot of time has passed since then. You think it's become
more secure over time?
AES is not "easily" cracked at all. It's approved by the U.S. government for the transmission of top secret information (though these days, anyone using less than a 256-bit key with AES is taking a risk).
But you're mixing apples and oranges. AES is not a wireless communications protocol. It's an encryption cipher that is incorporated into many forms of data storage and communication. Data encrypted by AES can be transmitted across a network that uses WPA2, as a separate layer of protection.
If your data is traveling from your computer to a banking website (let's say), that data has to be secure from end-to-end, not just within your Wi-Fi network. That means the data leaves your computer in an encrypted format, and stays encrypted until it reaches its destination. There are protocols (TLS and SSL) for transmitting data securely. Those protocols can transmit data encrypted by a variety of methods (AES, for example).
Wi-Fi network security is a compromise, chosen to keep the cost of networking down (encryption slows down transmission, so you have to compensate by having faster equipment). The basic approach is, "Make access to the network reasonably secure. If you need to, make communication across the network separately secure."
Effectively, WPA2 is the lock on your front door. The lock on your front door doesn't prevent you from being robbed on the street. If you have large amounts of cash and jewelry inside the house, you may not want to depend solely on the front door lock - you may also want to have a wall safe.