I don’t actively update firmware, so that’s out...if it does update, it updates automatically. Not complicated.
Recharging? What is absurd or difficult about it? The fact it’s another step?
Learning gestures? I mean, I have no words if that is complex or too much to handle. There are no gestures on EarPods, so is that a positive? You don’t have to use them on AirPods. It’s another option. If you don’t want to learn simple gestures, control your music from the device like you do with wired headphones.
No wires, noise cancellation, complete portability, on device controls, are all new benefits that more than outweigh the dumb headphones that jut play music.
Literally the only drawback is you have to recharge them, but the case holds so much charge it’s like a once per week task, if that.
Complexity isn’t the argument. This isn‘t complex or absurd. You get several tangible benefits in a simple to use package And is why wearables are growing like crazy. It’s better.