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Warning: I have nothing against women and I understand some - maybe many -are better than their counterpart, male or female.

But I wondered if that’s the case concerning those of you males that live with a woman. As for myself my wife can barely cope with the anxiety of having an smartphone in the future!

What about you? Whose the tech head in your house? May be your kids? It would be fun to have stories relating to this.
 
Warning: I have nothing against women and I understand some - maybe many -are better than their counterpart, male or female.

But I wondered if that’s the case concerning those of you males that live with a woman. As for myself my wife can barely cope with the anxiety of having an smartphone in the future!

What about you? Whose the tech head in your house? May be your kids? It would be fun to have stories relating to this.
I am the 'tech-head'. But that's just because I like this stuff.

Between me, my wife and my 2 kids the cat is smarter than I am.

My wife once thought computers were a fad that would fade away, but she was once offered a scholarship to JPL so what does she know?! :D

Anyway, it's been me that's dragged her into the current era. She doesn't care to deal with any of this stuff so when it comes to phones her only directive is that she gets the same thing I do.

My son is quite capable though and being 16 he deals with a lot more stuff that today's kids do. My wife talks to him when she needs info about Google Docs stuff for instance. I don't use that as I have Office on my devices.
 
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I do not have kids to compete with. So I am the text expert of the family.
 
My wife simply doesn't care. She wants decent battery and camera. And now she is onto her 3rd iPhone since the 5s she is more than happy for me to sort out her phone. Thing is she isn't wanting to spend loads on contract so to buy her iphone 8 outright last year and get her sim only meant less fuss for her changing phones etc until she really needs to.

I'm basically the tech head though lol
 
Growing up, my brother was the "techie" before it was a common term and definitely before each house had one. He was three years older and got tired of me asking him questions. In my 20s, I decided to try an iPhone. My brother warned me (and likely quietly prayed that I would NOT heed his warning) that if I left the PC world, I was on my own for everything. It was like leaving for college: scary and exhilarating.

And just like college, I sought out lessons. Back when you could sign up for a program called One-on-One with Apple, I paid something like $100 for the year when I bought my first MacBook Pro (about a month after buying an iPhone) and went to Apple once a week for a good several months to learn about something. I'd walk in with my notebook of questions and pick a topic to learn: Pages, Numbers, Keynote, etc., even Garage Band.

What I learned:

1. Apple's software and hardware.

2. Apple makes intuitive stuff, but it's rather like all human brains born capable of learning a language, someone still needs to teach them the language. I learned Apple.

3. With knowledge, experience, and encouragement, I learned way more about techie stuff than I ever thought I would. And I loved it!

Since then, I have become a technophile, way beyond but still including Apple.

I am now the techie in my household (and among most of my friends), and yes I manage all of the devices in my home's happy orchard. I love the problem solving, the integration, the evolution, and the shiny new gadgets.

It was the boys who were "into computers" when I was young. However, it seems there was a 'nature' in me that just needed some 'nurture.' :) And now, I am woman and hear me and all my gadgets roar! :)
 
I live with my fiancé and our two kids who are 8.5 yo daughter and 3 yo son. I’m the tech head in our household and family. Everyday I’m on Tapatalk reading tech articles about anything iPhone related. It’s turned into a hobby for me, so when it come time to upgrade devices, everyone in our families turn to me for advice. My fiancé don’t care about any phone. He’s the type of person to keep a phone until he either lose it or it breaks. My daughter is slowly starting to know the differences between iPhones and uses her phone to socialize with her friends and cousins. My son uses a spare iPhone to do his learning games and watch 30 minutes of kids YouTube a day. I manage all of the devices in our household including the cable, internet, and phone account. I have echo dots and a echo show set up throughout our home which we all love.
 
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I live with my fiancé and our two kids who are 8.5 yo daughter and 3 yo son. I’m the tech head in our household and family. Everyday I’m on Tapatalk reading tech articles about anything iPhone related. It’s turned into a hobby for me, so when it come time to upgrade devices, everyone in our families turn to me for advice. My fiancé don’t care about any phone. He’s the type of person to keep a phone until he either lose it or it breaks. My daughter is slowly starting to know the differences between iPhones and uses her phone to socialize with her friends and cousins. My son uses a spare iPhone to do his learning games and watch 30 minutes of kids YouTube a day. I manage all of the devices in our household including the cable, internet, and phone account. I have echo dots and a echo show set up throughout our home which we all love.
You need some Apple Glasses, so that you can view videos and forum posts in your glasses while you are walking your mail route. :D
 
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My husband is definitely the in-house tech support guy. I’ve loved computers since the first home computers came out in the 80’s. I just don’t have the same formal education he has.
 
Both of us are retired computer professionals. Wife was mainly networking, email, and server admin while I was more programming along with networks.
 
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I’m the tech head because I like tech. My other family members cannot even deal in having more than one gadget. My own dad refuses to use a smartphone and still prefer his trusty old Nokia. Cannot blame him though, he is used to and expect his phone to last for weeks without charging, without any hassles for him. The only problem is it’s a 2G only phone, and 2G networks are dwindling down.
 
I just don’t have the same formal education he has.

Who needs formal education? In the UK we can quit school at 16, so I did with nothing but an O Level grade C (CSE grade 1) in English language to my name. My dad wanted me to do something with my life so forced me into a mind numbing al but worthless 1 year B/Tec Business Studies course that I somehow managed to barely squeak thru. He then demanded I do at last one more year so I took up Drama for a year (which was an excuse to smoke and drink and talk about life, death, life again & Harold Pinter).

Here I am, now a US citizen having come over on a skills based H1B in the 90’s, and running a Databse & Business Intelligence team.

Screw formal edukashown. This gal got where she is today with grit, determination and an ability to back up her BS with luck, fortitude and an ability to just figure things out.

But I digress. I wear the tech pants and my wife wears the financial ones.
 
Warning: I have nothing against women and I understand some - maybe many -are better than their counterpart, male or female.

But I wondered if that’s the case concerning those of you males that live with a woman. As for myself my wife can barely cope with the anxiety of having an smartphone in the future!

What about you? Whose the tech head in your house? May be your kids? It would be fun to have stories relating to this.
I'm the tech head of the family and at work LOL long story.
 
Who needs formal education? In the UK we can quit school at 16, so I did with nothing but an O Level grade C (CSE grade 1) in English language to my name. My dad wanted me to do something with my life so forced me into a mind numbing al but worthless 1 year B/Tec Business Studies course that I somehow managed to barely squeak thru. He then demanded I do at last one more year so I took up Drama for a year (which was an excuse to smoke and drink and talk about life, death, life again & Harold Pinter).

Here I am, now a US citizen having come over on a skills based H1B in the 90’s, and running a Databse & Business Intelligence team.

Screw formal edukashown. This gal got where she is today with grit, determination and an ability to back up her BS with luck, fortitude and an ability to just figure things out.

But I digress. I wear the tech pants and my wife wears the financial ones.
That’s pretty awesome. Clearly, you’ve got a lot of native intelligence and an aptitude going for you as well. And self confidence. All that will take you far as you’ve demonstrated.
 
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My husband is definitely the in-house tech support guy. I’ve loved computers since the first home computers came out in the 80’s. I just don’t have the same formal education he has.
I'm not so sure 'formal education' is a necessity. I know what I know about tech and computers because it was always something I've been interested in. I've been online talking about this stuff since 1984 when Bulletin Board Systems were king. I was 14 then. I'm 49 now and it remains an interest for me.
 
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I am the 'tech head.' My daughter is clueless. My wife is OK with tech. My son is my 'level 1' tech support. I let him handle the easy stuff. Sometimes he asks stupid password questions.

No one has broken their iPhones aside from the wife washing her iPhone during quarantine when NO ONE was thinking clearly.
 
I am the 'tech head.' My daughter is clueless. My wife is OK with tech. My son is my 'level 1' tech support. I let him handle the easy stuff. Sometimes he asks stupid password questions.

No one has broken their iPhones aside from the wife washing her iPhone during quarantine when NO ONE was thinking clearly.
After many years, I believe I have finally managed to get it into my wife's head the very first troubleshooting step.

"Have you tried restarting yet?"
 
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I am the "tech head" of the house as my wife does not care about whether she upgrades her iPhone or iPad (as long as the devices work). But I've installed Arlo cameras and Ring video doorbell that she uses the apps. The Nest thermostat she uses occasionally, but she usually leaves the temperature in the house up to me. My son (four months) is a bit too young to be introduced to tech.

I also help out my in-law's with any Apple/tech related questions.
 
I'm mostly the main tech guy in my family, but my brother has helped me with a few things over the years.
 
I am the tech head of the house-next would be my daughter, with my husband just knowing the basics and not really caring about tech at all.
 
I'm not so sure 'formal education' is a necessity. I know what I know about tech and computers because it was always something I've been interested in. I've been online talking about this stuff since 1984 when Bulletin Board Systems were king. I was 14 then. I'm 49 now and it remains an interest for me.
I’m sure it’s not a factor for everyone. But when you’re with a partner who has countless hours of time in classes learning about programming and had a head start with an actual series of computers in their house as a teen while you had nothing, there’s a tendency to slot into lanes. He also has a natural aptitude with technology that I never had. Still, I probably could have developed more proficiency than I did

My husband and I met as teens and don’t forget in the 80’s, the prevailing image of girls in computing was as a sidekick to the computer genius boyfriend. Granted, that did not hold back most of the very accomplished women on this forum, but it did hold me back.

The ability probably was in there but the confidence to develop it just wasn’t there. And self esteem and confidence are key to developing any latent talents and gifts a person might have. That is why “representation” is important. That being said, my husband and the boyfriend I dated before him both were very encouraging of my interest in computers. Any failures to develop my skills are solely my own. I have learned a lot later in life through this forum.
 
My wife and I are equals on tech. It is how we met. She works for AT&T so knows her tech well. I am self taught and read a lot about tech. Plus I like reading when people have problems and others help solve them. But between my wife and I we can pretty much solve anything. Wife is amazing with phones and I am really good on the computer side.

My wife and I actually met on a tech site 4 years ago and were married 1 year ago.
 
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