Could be my words. I feel you.
Since two years my experience has gone from joy over a new iOS to finding workarounds (e.g. shortcuts for apps without a dark icon), anger about unnecessary extra clicks, submenus etc., anger about the missing bottom bar in photo app, absolute disbelief about the maps app on MacOS (mediathek floating on top of the map on the right side of your studio display!) and many other things.
What tipped me over the edge? Yesterday I installed 18.7 and after that I made a few appupdates.
Some apps - Firefox, Carrot - are now using the ios26 appicon with the outlines - even on 18.7!
I know have: 1. Apps without a dark icon 2. with the right dark ios18 icon and 3. apps with the outlines icon. Three different sort of icons in one iOS! Unbelievable!
In the last 10 years I bought in averadge 2 of the main Apple devices - iMac,iPhone,iPad,iPadPro,Watch.
In January I was sure to get the 17pro - coming from a 15pro. No way.
I change to this type of people who will use their devices as long as possible. No more yearly money from me.
And some word about LG: First I will never understand why Apple has decided to take the GUI from the less selled device to force millions of users to deal with it on their iPhones, iPads, Macs. They are different devices with a totally different approach.
And: think about all developers who have spend thousand of hours to create a trademark icon..form, color. It ends now up in a unreadable, colorless glass mess? What is wrong with them?
"but this whole situation has really changed me." - Me too.
PS: Forgot the removement of launchpad..another hit in the stomach.