I got them all to work together! Ok so like most of us that got MMS to work, it made tethering to not. So i went back to the help.benm.at/usa.php website on my phone and re-downloaded it. However when i went back to cellular data network and saw that all that was missing was the username and password. I left those blank because i didnt feel like looking it up and tested MMS and it still worked as well as my VVM. So to make all 3 work together, i guess you just have to keep the APN of MMS and VVM as wap.cingular, leave username and password blank, and fill the MMSC wit mmsc.cingular.com and the MMS Proxy as 188.8.131.52 Hope that makes sense...if not post your question.