are you really straightedge? or referring to the front you put up as an RA?
in any case, that's cool that you're looking to change the face of frats at umass. my parents were both in service frats (well, my dad was in an rotc one), so i realize they're not ALL like that. and ultimately, my problem is with the idiots who get hammered constantly and date rape girls, not with the groups they associate themselves with. i do feel that frats don't do enough to discourage that aspect though.
in any case, that's cool that you're looking to change the face of frats at umass. my parents were both in service frats (well, my dad was in an rotc one), so i realize they're not ALL like that. and ultimately, my problem is with the idiots who get hammered constantly and date rape girls, not with the groups they associate themselves with. i do feel that frats don't do enough to discourage that aspect though.