First of all, I hate these kind of posts because everybody has their own opinion and reasons for using a certain case. I'm trying to see if anybody is in a position like me. My wife and I are switching from T-Mobile to AT&T and we are each going to get an iPhone 4. I am debating between the Otterbox Defender and the Pixelskin HD. I like the protection that the Defender has but I'm not too fond of it making the iPhone bulky, but that doesn't turn me off either. The Pixelskin HD looks nice but not sure how much it protects the phone. Reasons why I need help deciding: - I am not so careful with my phones so a case is definitely needed (also getting iPhone insurance). - I have a one-and-a-half year old who doesn't really tend to be careful with things (must've gotten it from me) - I have a flip-phone (I know, I know) right now that is pretty thick, so I'm not too concerned about the iPhone being bulky, but I would prefer it not to be as bulky. So I think I value protection more than the look of the iPhone (even though it's a gorgeous phone). Was anybody in a position like me?