I'm in the same boat, and very happy to be in it.
I look at it like this, these manufacturers and developers have to consistently keep up with and try to bypass each other consistently, and that is good for all of us. More competition equals more and better choices available.
I recently moved from a Droid X to the iPhone 4 the second it hit Verizon. A friend of mine and I were talking about the differences, and the conclusion we both chuckled at is, the Droid X is perfect for HIM, the iPhone is perfect for ME, just because 1 of us prefers one over the other does not make either of our choices better or worse. Widgets and full screen customization is nice, sliding a screen down to see notifications and preview them is great. The perfect size, durability, smooth scrolling, retina display, and synchonicity with the rest of my devices is also great.