Ok, did you resolder the chip pointed to in the second post? because that's not the gpu. Yes it can cause the problem, but it's not the gpu (the gpu is one of the large BGA chips) before scrapping the board check your soldering.
As for ram causing freezing, yes, in my experience it does, and before Intell says i don't know what i'm talking about and that it only ever causes kp's, i have had macs with bad ram that freeze on one boot and kp on another.
I am not proclaiming to be a expert, just someone with quite a bit of experience, and from that i have had some freeze, some kp, and some do both.