I've looked and cannot find an answer to my problem, so here it is... We (the wife and I) both use our iphones to enter events on our calendar...we've set it up so that it should sync with mobile me (thus updating our mac and iphones). The problem is that things are getting deleted A LOT!!! When I open ical on my mac, there are at least 20 "calendars" in the far left column (i didn't know we were creating a "new" calendar every time we used a new color for an event). Anytime we plug our iphones in the ical comes up saying that there are duplicates that need to be resolved...I hit ok...I thought I was doing the right thing. Does anyone have an idea of what I'm doing wrong and what I can do to fix it??? Thanks in advance!