Ok so let me start by saying sorry I suck with my Iphone. It's a Iphone 3GS and here is my problem. whenever I sync my Ical on my Iphone with my Imac the problem I get is all my computer Ical data goes on my Iphone and all my Iphone data is erased. now thats nice and all but I would prefer if my phone data went onto my Imac and my Imac data would go onto my Iphone. but so they're mirrored that way I see everything coming up on both devices. so what am I doing wrong??