iCal Problem (adding me as a delegate)

Hi - I have iCal which I use religiously.

My master account is actually a google calendar account synced via CalDav.

On my google calendar I have 2 subscriptions, one is my girlfriends calendar and the other is UK holidays which is automatically added by Google.

This setup works great, and allows me to add dates on my mac which will show up on my iphone and also my girlfriends iphone.

However - every time I launch iCal it adds a new delegation, gives it my personal name, and duplicates everything I ever added.

I have to manually remove this every time I load up iCal and it's driving me nuts!

 

Nobody?

Is there any other way to sync 2 calendars on 2 iphones?