So i'm looking to set up a calendar in iCal for me and my fiancee so we can keep track of our busy schedules and keep in sync. ideally what i'd like is to set up a calendar that I can add things to and so can she, that we can sync between our iphones and macs. Here's what we have she has an iphone 3g and a alu macbook I have an iphone 3g and a alu macbook pro 1 mobileme account under my name. from searching this is what i've gathered so far: I can create the calendar in iCal, then publish it using my mobileme account then have her subscribe to it in her iCal.... by doing this she should be able to sync it to her iphone every time she connects it to her macbook and performs a sync in itunes I will have it pushed to my iphone with mobileme so my question is can she make changes and add things on the calendar as a subscriber? or do all changes and additions have to be done by my in my ical or mobileme website?