I love iChat am frustrated with the font. I want my outgoing font color to be blue but the receiver says it is blue only after I change it each time. When I go into preferences and then font, I change it to blue. Outgoing messages on my screen are blue, but the receiver sees black. The first message I send will be blue but then change right back to black. Is there a way to permanently change this?! It seems a bit ridiculous to change it each time.