Yes, massively so. There is a good reason why nobody does anything like that. Mounting a couple of dies on a larger passive substrate using low-density connector wires is considerably cheaper than manufacturing one large die. In fact, the industry is moving towards using disaggregated stacked dies and high-density connectors (2D/3D packaging) to save costs.
DRAM scaling depends on capacitor density, not transistor density. Not to mention that design goals for processing circuitry and DRAM are very different. Industry leaders in compute (including Nvidia, Apple, AMD, Intel, and others) don’t make their own DRAM - because designing, optimizing, and validating these is an entirely different task. What’s more, DRAM and processors aren’t even made in the same foundries. There is embedded DRAM of course, but it has limited applications and you can’t really build a high-capacity RAM system from it.
Not to say that things might not change in the future. Apple has been experimenting with high-bandwidth RAM multi-chip-module designs for the Vision Pro, for example. They are crazy enough and large enough to pursue their own proprietary high-performance RAM solution.
Interesting. You learn something new every day.