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Mail service? Yahoo's push email. Gmail etc are other options....

Might want to add more information - paid service? Free email?
 
I'm using Gmail and just manually synchronizing my calendars, contacts, and bookmarks right now, works more reliably than MobileMe ever did for me.
 
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