so as suggested i tried flashplayer 10.1 beta 3 , video still plays in window but oh hell cpu usage went up from basically around 70% with flashplayer 9 to 88% hitting 90% with the 10.1 beta 3😱 i could live with it but its not ideal , so guys at adobe go back to your computers and start coding again ,maybe you can drop it another 10% and could get a level of cpu usage for such a simple thing as flashplayer , 75%-max 80% that would just be acceptable, but i still prefered the level between 64% and 73% in flashplayer 9