Hello, I have come here to hopefully answer a question i have. My situation is i have LOTS of Apple devices, Many Macs, Many IPads, and the big problem... My phone and my wives. I understand that Apple may want to make sure that we all have different accounts, but her and i have shared a ITunes account for nearly 5 years now. 50% of my music, 50% hers, same with contacts, movies, apps... ext. How do I Properly set it up so when i IMessage her and the same back to me, it displays properly. Meaning, no duplicate messages. Ideally i would like to go into IMessage settings, assign a number (or email) for each device. This would be great so i could facetime my IMac from my Macbook, or send a IMessage to my wife exclusively, not across everything. If i wanted to send it across everything, i would just add all the unique numbers/emails and send out a sort of mass IMessage. I mentioned this above, but FaceTime is also a big problem i have yet to fix. I want to facetime her iPhone and not have all my devices light up like a xmas tree. BUT, if i wanted to FaceTime one specific device, i could just simply "call Wives IPad2 or something. A Any ideas?