Once again, what are you shooting that you won't get motion blur at under 1/60th of a second? What is this "extremely difficult" challenge? I shoot fairly often under 70mm, and I can't for the life of me imagine a subject that would occasionally want to be shot that slowly that wouldn't give motion blur, so I'm curious, please share this challenge with us. More importantly, please share some images of this challenge- I'd like to understand your argument, because unlike you, I believe that many manufacturers add stabilization to shorter focal length lenses simply for marketing purposes, but I haven't shot everything under the roof, so please share some of these wide angle challenges. If it's routine enough to be important to you, then it should be relatively easy to show some examples and enlighten us all.
Actually, the reciprocal of the focal length rule works no matter if the camera is a crop sensor or not. A 200mm lens is a 200mm lens- if it were designed for a crop sensor, it would just have a smaller image circle, not less magnification.
Since my 80-200 doesn't fit into my Wimberly II, I usually shoot with it hand held (it and the slow 300/4 are the two lenses I tend to use hand-held, as everything else will work on the L bracket on the Wimberly other than the 400/2.8 which has a nice foot to balance on the gimball head.) So, no- it doesn't "require" a tripod or a monopod. If being "careful" is too much work for you- and let's face it, it's just acquiring good technique, then probably framing, lighting and all the other "work" involved in getting good shots are "too much work" too- but that doesn't change the fact that you're wrong about Nikon's lenses.
Frankly though, for what I use a 200mm lens for I don't find it all that difficult to shoot at 1/250th of a second zoomed all the way in- which is fast enough to require no support at all with either my full frame or DX crop bodies. At 1/125th, I need good technique or something to brace against- but again, I'd be at 1/60th with an f/4 lens, so I'd be looking at subject motion blur for most moving subjects at that point. For me, that's too slow for say a drummer in motion- where I'd want to be around 1/125th to 1/250th depending. So once again, I ask what are you shooting with a 70-200/4 that makes IS advantageous, because other than tracking moving subjects with some calculated motion blur, I don't see a huge advantage- and I find f/4 enough of a disadvantage that I'd rather have the subject isolation >95% of the time (and I do a fair amount of panning of moving subjects.)
Paul