Because reporting it to Apple is impersonal. Child feels they’ve been victimized? Push button. Done. That’s all there is to it.
Thanks. That's a clear statement of a potential benefit, and I can see it. I can see there being less fear pushing a button to a far away company and not having to look mom or dad in the eye.
I still think that in the vast majority of cases, that button should notify the parents associated with the account and not dump it into MegaCorp's lap on the other side of the planet.
While yes, you may eventually have to speak with parents or police, it’s not the first step. No fear of ridicule, hounding, or uncertainty of support to discourage you from saying anything. The first step is the hardest step. And if you are later asked to speak to the police, you know they are actually working on your case rather than you trying to make an initial report and hope to be taken seriously.
If this is the thinking, I'm back to being hesitant. This sounds like a bit of bait and switch trickery. We're trying to trick vulnerable kids into pushing a button we make seem distant and impersonal, and then some time later they have cops showing up at both the victim's and perpetrator's homes with printed records of offending communications and parents feeling behind events and asking "why didn't you come to us about this first?"
Making it easier for victims to seek help is a good thing.
Sure, ceteris paribus. But it's really hard to isolate that as the only impact.
There are times when it should be safety above all else and we can apologize later, sure. Step away for the ledge and I promise you a pony. Maybe after time they'll be glad for the intervention and excuse the lack of pony. I think there's a real risk though that those rare situations are going to get lost in the wash of more general potential harm.
Even in the situation you're describing, where a child is shy to speak to someone close, imagine their mortification when not talking to a parent privately on their own terms suddenly means so many more people are involved and aware and your parents are partly focused on defending themselves as parents rather than putting everything into helping the child with their issue.
And again, I think there are a lot of potential problems outside of that one situation. If you want to make it easier, you'll have less "are you sure" dialogs-- I've seen people pull fire alarms wondering what would happen and then suddenly realize their mistake. If there's no take backs on this, then impulsive behavior can trigger major consequences.
I dunno, I see your point on making it less personal, but I'm not sure the net benefit here is good-- and it definitely substitutes Apple for parents even if you think there's good reason to.
Having said it earlier, I'm starting to think it's a better solution: have the button anonymously call an in-country counseling line.