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You might look into Missing Sync or Pocket Mac.

I haven't used either in a couple of years, but at the time they were both less than perfect. You'll want to look around for recent reviews of both to see how well they work.
 
I haven't thought about iPaq in years, didn't know they still existed? Is Palm still in business?
 
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