203 gr vs 238 gr is a lot…could change completely the experience handling the phone. For example in my case, I like to watch movies resting on the bed holding the iphone with one hand.
It’s not an easy decision by any means. With 14 plus apart from 35 grams less you have X65 modem that seems to be night and day compared with last year X60, new selfie camera with 1.9 faster aperture (same of 14 pro), photonic engine, action mode in video, according to apple “best battery on an iPhone ever”(although this has to be checked in real tests), bluetooth 5.3 (very interesting if you have airpods pro 2 or maybe airpods max 2 in the future with lossless audio).
However, with 13 PM you gain promotion, macro/telephoto lens and lidar sensor (portrait in night mode), proRAW & proRES.
This is a great discussion without a doubt.