Well if 1/32 is correct, and the bezels are the same size as on my 13PM, then that's about a 40% difference in thickness between the left and right bezels on your 14 Pro, so that would definitely be noticeable. Maybe you should return it and try one more to see if it's ok and then if not, buy a used 13 Pro instead. Or if you don't care about the "Pro" then buy a 13 new directly from Apple.
Will be interesting to see if others have this same issue.