You and I are not alone. I’ve done unofficial questionnaires with every user I’ve interacted with and many didn’t have issues until they got COVID. And if they did have sensitivities, it worsened them.
I could tolerate my 2019 iMac that I left on MacOS Mojave - unchanged from when I bought it (it was a music production computer so that’s typical). I got reinfected in July 2024 and couldn’t tolerate the AMD dithering and FRC anymore.
My theory is that in addition to the vascular and neurological destabilization caused by COVID, it also has the potential to lower your critical fusion flicker threshold - AKA the rate at which you perceive flicker and your tolerance for it.
Obviously COVID and long COVID are still essentially a black box that scientists are still trying to understand. I think it’s an unfortunate coincidence that Apple and other companies have really ramped up device brightness and dithering to try to make screens look flashier and more vivid. The PWM frequency and modulation has been particularly bad since the iPhone 14 series, with the latest M4 gen of iPads and MacBooks driving users to Eyestrain subreddits and forums by the week. One user even reported an Apple Store tech was having symptoms.
So this issue really has to be addressed. The flicker portion is the easiest to deal with and the most egregious: PWM and dithering. People in the communities are discussing a class action lawsuit because it has gotten out of hand and up until this rumor, Apple has been silent.
Again, count yourself lucky if you’re reading this thread and don’t have this problem. But shaming people as I’ve seen a lot of people do over the years on this forum is akin to shaming someone for having any other disability or neurological condition. No one here is trying to rag on Apple - this is an industry wide problem.