I am Soooo NOT iPhone savvy.... I hardly ever connect to my computer for updates and when I do something usually goes wrong. My iPhone locked up during update. I reset thru iTunes. I think I then "restored" because contacts and notepad are back but my apps and music are gone from iPhone. Since I have no idea what happens during a sync, I am afraid that if I sync with computer some (or all) of the following may happen: 1) lose contacts very bad since I have no other place where this info is stored 2) when iPhone "backup" occurs during sync it will it erase all my apps and music from the Library 3) lose notepad info Just want everything back the way it was... HELP???? If you have time can you explain what happens during a sync??