Wirelessly posted (iPhone: Mozilla/5.0 (iPhone; U; CPU iPhone OS 2_1 like Mac OS X; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.18.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.1.1 Mobile/5F136 Safari/525.20)
Yes I understand your little frustration here.
Be patient. Apple will catch up. Be thankful there is at least SMS.
Or if you are really wanting MMS on your phone, send photos through email to other's phones.