I'm in the same boat, but it's going to my parent's house instead of me at college. Paid for the phone with my debit card with my current address, but it's shipping to the billing address that's on the AT&T account and when I go into change the shipping address after placing the order, the "edit" link does nothing when trying to change it.
Guess I have to call Apple and see what can be done.
Guess I have to call Apple and see what can be done.