We're not talking about universal truths. Just common dress sense. Most men don't have an eclectic style so won't want a pastel accessory.
Some men, usually younger men still working out what suits them, do look much more expressive and will go for all kinds of colours. All your items you've listed and their colours - none of that matches.
So you're clearly not concerned about getting out of a yellow car in funky blue sneakers while swinging your purple PS5 pad over your shoulder. All good, but no one will consider you put-together as we say in the UK.
Nothing profound about any of that, and yes men will wear pastel shirts on occasion, but very rarely buy any pastel accessories as men usually have many shirts, but very few accessories - so the accessories tend to need to match more outfits.
But again, I'm talking to someone who buys ON sneakers so I guess there's absolutely no chance to see eye to eye here. Do they have even one decent running shoe