Using following equipment. Windows XP Outlook 2000 (2) 3g Iphones ver 2.1 My wife and I just bought Iphones and have crazy schedules especially now with a child. I am a fireman, union president, and work a rotating shift. She is a nurse that has self scheduling. I would like to have both of our calendars appear on both of our phones synced together but assign a color to her events that she enter and another color to the events that I enter. Is this possible and if so what is the best way to do it with the equipment I have described above? Also when I sync the phones they update the calendar on the other phone but it does not update outlook, even though I have Itunes set to sync with outlook. Why does it not put the events entered on the phone into outlook? Also when I enter an event into Outlook it does not put it on the phones when I sync. any help is greatly appreciated.