are you saying all of digg is wrong?
http://digg.com/apple/SIM_card_slot_on_iphone
apple doesnt believe in functionality, they believe in looks, an IR port would look ugly, also the name IRDA is ugly so thats why they didnt include it. (bluetooth is the IR replacement anyways and the iphone has BT2.0)
this post is just a trainwreck, not only were you wrong to begin with, an IR port looking ugly? its a frickin black dot, i think a headphone jack or the sim card tray would certainly beat out an IR port in the "ugly" category. Secondly, i highly doubt they didn't include the feature due to the name being "ugly".