sorry for the double post but if anyone was wondering about this I got it sorted out. AT&T might have canceled it, I'm not sure, but either way the first thing I did was call Apple who put the money back on my account (took the hold off of it) so I wouldn't be charged because they were showing canceled too, then AT&T told me it showed I already had one preordered so I checked apple.com and it was back to not being canceled with delivery on the 21s. I called AT&T this morning ready to be a dick, which is totally unlike me, but I was pretty upset that I had to now wait in line or wait 2-3 weeks for my phone that should have been here on time, so I was going to be a dick until they offered me some sort of compensation of my next bill or something like that to make up for their mistake (I know, I know, sleazy of me) but the lady on the customer support line was too nice, I couldn't go through with it, and luckily I couldn't or I would have looked like a dumbass AND a jackass because the order was back up somehow.