Check the settings for the Facebook app, if she has it installed. This app now preloads and plays videos in your feed/stream/whatever they call it.
The settings are in the iOS settings app, under Facebook, and not within the Facebook app itself.
Could be the culprit. Also, double check that she is on wifi at home. I know so many people (parents included) that have issues only to realize they are not connected to their home wifi. I have no idea how this happens, because it's after I've checked they were set to automatically connect, but it does. Also know of a firsthand situation where the home wifi signal wasn't strong enough to cross the entire house, and they didn't realize it. So again, double/triple-check wifi connectivity throughout the house.