iphone wifi order preference

Hello all,

I was wondering if any one knows of a way to set priorities to certain networks on my iphone. I have issues when I'm away from my home network for example...

When I visit my parents house I sign onto there standard network with ssid "actiontec" using their password. This works great while I'm there. When I return home to my apartment my phone defaults to the network that is also named "actiontec" from another tenant in my building, only now the password is incorrect (obviously) and I default back to 3g. To have my phone default back to my network I have to select "forget this network" (actionec) This works fine until I return to my parents and need to input there password again.

I think if there was a way to set my home network as the primary network and "actiontec" as the secondary network (similar to how networks are handles in OSX) then I could avoid this inconvinience.

Am I crazy picky or are others experiencing the same annoyance?