I am trying to connect to itunes wirelessly using my iphone so that i can use it to control itunes. The phone connects ok via usb...but wont appear in itunes if i connect it to the wireless network in the house. It is connecting to wireless as i am able to use the iphone skype app with no problems which doesnt work on 3g. I was under the impression that it should appear in itunes under devices and ask for me to enter a 4 digit code. Any ideas?