I have never had a problem with my ipod touch, until recently I updated my ipod (which its been forever) it completely erased my media, which is fine, but it also will not connect to itunes. I tried all the steps on apple.com, updating itunes software trying different usb ports, i even tried another computer. whenever i connect the ipod it makes a sound confirming it is connected, opens itunes, but no icon. I am beginning to think that i might have messed it up when a buddy of mine put 3rd party apps on it. I also tried using another ipod to confirm it wasnt the computer and it connected fine. am i missing something? someone plz help me out